User blog comment:Camwood777/An Open Letter to the Wiki/@comment-4009269-20170621222415/@comment-7091122-20170622032958

You can't just go on a break, avoid the drama, and presto, no issues. The drama will eventually come for you, even if you're not even relevant. And you'll be forced to get involved, or be punished.

It hardly delays the inevitable, and just wastes time by making me do the equivalent of shoving my thumb up my butt, while I just wait for things, and just pray they improve when I get back. I'm not gonna do anything to make them improve, though. Just kinda wait and expect that to magically make them improve.

And waiting only does three things, and it's a lack-thereof for one:
 * 1) It does nothing to solve the issues or actually improve the situation.
 * 2) It wastes time you could spend solving the issues or improving the situation.
 * 3) It gives you a nice, long while to let it sink in you're wasting time you could be spending solving the issues or improving the situation, and expecting that wasted time to solve the issues or improve the situation, so you can cry in the bathtub taking a cold shower while you're home alone, realizing you're a failure and a fool for isolating yourself from a place that means a lot to you, just because you expect it to solve issues and improve situations, and making you wonder if you should've just done it already.

You can evade all you want, and ignore anything you want, but you can't ignore time. So it's a good thing the thing you're telling me to evade, ignore, and take a break to get away from is inevitable, and only a matter of-- you guessed it, time. The only thing it changes is what part of the drama I enter it in, and isolating myself from people here on purpose, including those I genuinely care for, thusly worsening my state since I have so few people to talk to as is.