Board Thread:Internal management/@comment-7091122-20160526014234

BE CIVIL.

...Now that that's out of the way...

-

Recently, I got a warning for "calling pinkgirl a prostitute." Now, you can read my thoughts on how I feel that is bullcrap over here. But I feel there's more that needs to be addressed here, too, as this isn't the only time that this has been a thing.

Pinkgirl hasn't just recently been rude. She's been doing so quite often recently. Her usage of "dearie" comes off as particularly mocking, and being generally rude about it. An example of this is here.

Not to mention, she says she "didn't know" that her saying that would offend. Well, counter-argument: I made it very clear since day 1 that I was sensitive. From my promotion thread, to when she first hurt me (see below), I made it clear that that sort of behavior was unacceptable to use to me. And yet Pink discarded all of this.

This isn't even the first time she hurt me. Remember this thread, where she was being unnecessarily rude and mocking, and even nearly drove me to crying when I hardly ever cry? And when Starfruity ended up having to stop her, by just saying "don't do that" to her?

Or what about the first time she did it,, right here*, where she called me "not a real fan of PvZ" for wanting to change the images of our wiki's badges (not add new badges, not only joining the wiki for the badges and ONLY the badges, no, for wanting only to CHANGE A FEW IMAGES)

So she would've had to know that by doing this, I would be very easily hurt. And she did it anyways, and she hurt me. And by the looks of it, she's gotten away with it. Why?

We don't allow other staff members to bully other staff members and regular members. What makes Pink special, and allows her to hurt my feelings, when my self-esteem is already Marina's Trench levels of low?

It's hit a point where I feel uncomfortable near pink. I have been lurking in chat lately, and yet whenever I see Pink, I instinctively leave. I dread talking to her. I don't hate her; no, I fear her. Let me re-iterate; A staff member fears another staff member.

The worst part is, I know nothing will be done. The past 9 months, I've been in this situation several times, on top of pre-existing mental scarring and loss of my sense of self. And nothing was done any of those times. So I feel like nothing's going to done. For all intents and purposes, I feel powerless against her; like all I can do is keep suffering.

And this isn't even going in to what she did to other users. I cannot speak for them, but I can speak for me.

We can't just let this happen. Something has to be done, because I feel genuinely uncomfortable

'' * She actually deleted her post later, or at least, someone did. So I used my quoting of it.'' 