User blog:Lol is 4 Lollipop/I'm confused...

Almost no admins or people who can help me are active these days. I still don't understand how to use Talk pages, or why my blog posts do not show in the "recent blog posts" section, even though they are categorized as blog posts. Also blog posts that I just posted won't show in my blog for a while, why is that? :( Hardinero is the only other person I ever see editing and only Nemesis-041 commented on my blog and replied to my comments. Someone help me out please :3