Board Thread:Weekly discussions/@comment-27138615-20170520090001/@comment-26593304-20170527041032

Mental Skillness wrote: i'm trying to discuss an important issue with the community

about how drama is poorly maintained

but everyone keeps deleting my replies despite being very relevant, and they say that it's negative, so we can't talk about it??

even though it's relevant??

???

i'm personally confused here too

Okay, let me say this one thing.

I have no problem with us talking about this. I personally am okay with it. But the way you say it... To me at least, it comes across as.. uh... impolite, to say the least. You seem somewhat aggressive about it and your attitude is corrosive. It's no way to talk about flaws and how to improve them. You need to be more civil about it, or try to at least.

Again, I'd like to reiterate that the above is how I, personally interpret your words. Since this is only text, I have no way to know what your real tone is, whether it's as snarky as I see it or if you're being sincere and it just comes across as rude. My assumption is that I'm reading it similarly to how others, like Camwood, are seeing it. And that tells me that I'm not alone on this viewpoint.

Try to see from my perspective for a sec, would you? Look at your older replies (although if you can't I understand) and read them as if you weren't you.